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Aug
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倾诉

倾诉,其实是件挺2的事儿

说的人把对方恨不能当成大竹筐,自己什么烂苹果都往里倒

听得人不管是碍着面子还是什么目的,一般都得听着,佯装认真,时而接上一两句,更让倾诉着觉着来劲,什么陈芝麻烂谷子都倒出来

可实际上,则未必了,有时候一不经意倾诉者发现对方也就那么一听,或者发现连自己亲爹都不再爱听,或者嗯啊的打着哈哈,结果就是以为人家跟你不亲了,自己掏心掏肺

其实错在倾诉者,换个角度,你乐意听人家讲那么多傻*呵呵的事儿么,亲爹都不听,别人跟你有淡关系

因此,越是应该学会不倾诉,省着伤着自己伤着对方伤着对方和自己的关系

一棵大树应该懂得如何在一片空地中扎根广而深,向上则枝繁叶茂,无论是暴雨雷电或阳光,而不是寻找庇护

 

不是说两句似真似假亦真亦幻的话就是亲人了

该改改了

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2 Responses to “倾诉”


  1. 1 麻辣教师
    August 30, 2011 at 12:17 pm

    有个亲人听你倾诉就不错了
    我已经习惯报喜不报忧了
    也习惯成为被倾诉的那个人了


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